Ke Alakai o Hawaii, Volume VIII, Number 24, 17 October 1935 — KA MALAMA AME KA HOOULU ANA I NA KEIKI [ARTICLE]

KA MALAMA AME KA HOOULU ANA I NA KEIKI

oke kanawai Hoopakele ia oe iho, o Ipihawai mua loa ia iloko o ke ola ana o kekahi meu nfa keia ao, mai na keiki liiiii mai a ka poe i oo; i ka ulu kftar«e o na keikimahine ame na keikikane a hiki i ko lakoū nui ana, e nono pu ana lakou m'awaena o na ano poe ttfc«r , We, kekahi o lakou me na noono maikai, kekahi me na-t!Mfnao-in.o, e kuko ana a e hoolala ana ma na mea pono d!efa hookauhihi ia mai la maluna o ua'poe keiki nei, ia'Wa' oia e nopu koke ae ai iua kanawai la, e hoopakfclg'ana iaia mai na mea e hookauhihi wale ia aku maluna~6l*J£.

O na keiki Jiaawipio wale, o ka lakoti "fffiBā e kamailio ai: "Hahāl ana au i kuu makuahine!" Aka, ina he keiki i a'oia e hakaka akū no i kona hakaka oia e hoopuka ana ina huaolelo elike me ia i hdik& maluna ae, aka, e paio āku no oia elike me ka Mki t iaia, no ka mea, aole he hopohopo ana iloko oria, 'a o mua !oa ia ā na keiki e lawelawe mua āi. *

Nolaila, ke a'o nei makou i na makua apail, e hooikaika ike a'o ana i kau keiki ika hoopakele T ā:hfi īaiā iho, mai haawipii a hohewale, aka, e hoike aku i ka m~ē'& e hoino mai ana iaia, ua like no oia a like me iia mea"ftta fe hoino mai lanaiaia. E kupaa aku ma na ano apaii. j O kekahi haawina anonui loa a mākōīi a 4 o aku nei i jna makua, ka hoopakele ana i na keikimāhiKē e loaa ole jkela haawina o ka hanau keiki poo ole Ma na mea ! i loaa ma ka makou huli ana, o kekahl kei&"o na ehaeha mana'ona'o loa e loaa ana i na keikimahinē; hnamuli o ka ! puni wale ana i na hoowalewale ana, e I?āfT friai ai keia jhilahila maluna o lakou; aka ina e a'o ana a 'na makua, e hiki ai i kekahi keikimahine e ilre ! Tho, he hilahila loa na hala ame na hewa o keia ano €Pt6aa 'mai ana maluna o lakou, a e mau mai ai ia hilahila o lakou i na la apau o ko lakou ola ana ma ia a e kau mai ai ka manamana-lima o kela ame ona wahi apau ana e hele ai. .

O ka haa-wina maikai loa e hiki ole ai ke hoopoinaia e na makua i ke a'o ana i na keiki. na keikikane arae na keikimahine, oia ka hooikaika-kmo ana. O kekahi keia o na haawina e hoopiha ia ai ke kino o na keiki me ka ikaika ame ka lamalama; e loaa ole ai ka manawa i ke koko maloko o ko lakou kino e mo-ku ai i kahi hookahi, aole hoi e hoopoluluhiia ko lakou mau noonoo i kela ame keīa manawa, mamuli mai o ka holo maikai ole o ke'koko malōko 0 ko lakou kino. -> - Ua makemake nui makou e hoike aku i na mea apau e heluhelu ana i keia buke, o ke koko iloko o kou kino*oia iho la no ka materia hookahi nana e hoonee i keia khio holookoa me ke kanalua ole, aka, i kona \va e nele āi me ke koko', alaila, o ka pau ana nola o ke ola ana o ua kino nei. O ke kiileana nae e īoaa mai ai o ke koko, mai na meaai mai no ia au e ai ai, no ka mea, i ke komo ana aku o ua l mau meaai la maloko o kou opu, alaila, e lawe ana k'eīa' ame keia mau mea paahana pakahi iho i ko lakou kule- 1 ana mai ua mau meaai la, a o ke koena iho, e hooleiia aku no ia ma kahi ino. 0"lTa mau mea paahana pakahi ala, oia no ke koko, a aila, ka wai, ka e-a, ka hou, ka waimaka; e lawe ana lakou i ko lakou mahele pakahi iho a v;aihoia maloko o kekahi eke, i kapaia ua eke la he G!and. Aka J<% o na makua e haawi ana i keia mau mea apau 1 ka lauaohana keiki, e ike ai no lakou i ka oiaio o keia mau a'o ana, e loohia mau ōle ai na ohana keiki la me na onawaliwali o ka ma'i, a e hoopiha ia ai ka home o ua main makua la me ka hauoli ame ka lokahi oluolu o kā noho ana. . NA HAAWINA MAIKAI ILOKO 0 NA KEIKI, A PELA PU ME NA HAAWINA MAIKAI OLE 0 ka hoomaopopo ana o tia makua i tia ano maikai ame, na ano maikai ole: ilokō o na keiki, kekahi haawina anonui: loa a na makua e hoomaopopo ai mawaena o na E malama ana ua mau makua nei he papa hoonohonoho pei--11 a na ira ano apau oka laua ohana keiki, elike paha me keia: Anoai, he keiki oluolu loa kekahi iwaena oka laua ohana, he hoolohe ina mea apau aka makua e kamailio a e ā r o aku ai, a e hooko ana ina mea apau e hooimauna ia aku ai. Anoai, he keiki kekahi i holomua loa ma kana mau haawina o kona halekula, a e hoohala nui ana i kona manawa f hoopaanaau ana i kana mau haawina kula. Ahe keiki paha kekahi iloko o keia ohana i akenui i ka hele ana. i ka hana, no ka loaa ana mai o ke dala no e kokua ana \ na makua ma na hoolilo e pili ana i kahome. Aole e nele ka ike ana aku o ka makua i keia mau haawina pakahi mahma o ka laua ohana keiki; a pela me na manawa like ole e loaa ai keia ohana keiki me na oma'ima J i like ole. E pono ika makuāhine e malama ī kekahi papa hoonohonoho pololei no keia mau mea apau, a i ka liala ana ae c na pule, na mahina ame na makahiki paha, e loaa ai i keia mau mākua k|kahi mau hoomaopopo ana i na kulana like ole niāwaena o ka laua ohana keiki. Ma keia e hiki ai ia laua ke hooponopono i kekahi mau hemahema liilii e loaa ae ana i kela ame kfcia manawa, a i ote» e hoololi ana paha i ke kulana o kekahi keiki mai kekahi ano i kuluma iaia ai kekahi ano hou a ka makua i makemake ai, ua hiki loa iaia ke hana elike me īa ana ī makemake ai, no ka mea, e palupalu ana no ka noonoo -o.kek &me keia keiki, alaila, o ka hoomau ia a-na no hoi ia ona ano maikai o ua keiki nei; a pela aku no paha me kekahi keiki okoa aku o keia ohana. Aka, e hoomaopopo pono loa na makua i keia, aole foa he ohana i holopono loa ka lakou ohana keiki i ka maikai waleno. Aia no iwaena o-aa ohana la, kekahi hipa eteele mawaena o iakou. Alaila, ona keiki o keia ano, e haawi ai ua mau makua ala i ka laua mau makaala loa ana me ke kunukunu ole. Haawi aku ina hooponopono ame na hoopololei ana ma kahi i ike ia-na hemahema, a e hoomau i ke a'o ana i na mea maikai i ua hipa eleele nei eiike me ka loihi a na makua e ike ai he pono, a aole auanei e neie ka ioaa mai o na hua maikai ma ia mau hana hoomanawanui ana aku a ka makua, a e loli no auanei na amo inoino o keia keiki> ina paha aole i pau loa i ka maemae. aka, e aho hoi ia.mamua o ka nele loa. E ALAKAIIA KA NOONOO O NA KEIKĪ He kumu ko na mea apau, nolaila, e poiio e hoomnia ke a'o ana i na keiki, i hiki mai ai i ko lakou la e noho akū ai ma ka honua nei malalo o ka lakou mau malama ponoi ana ia lakou iho, e ike ai a e hoomaopopo īho ai lakou o na a'o ana apau au a ka makua, no ko lakou pono ponoi tio ia o ka noho ana aku, a e hooko aku ai paha ia māluna o kona ohana ponoi no ia mua aku o kona noho ana. Nolaila, i mea e hoomanao ai lakou i kau mau a*o ana ka ka makua, e kamailio mau ana oe iaia i kela ame keia manawa e loaa ana ia oe, a ua kapaia ia mea e na papa kauka he alakai ana i na noonoo o na keiki, (Leading Will Power). A hiki i ka piha ana o na makahiki o na keiki i ka umikumamahiku. e palupaiu ana no ko lakou mau noonoo no ka hiki e hoonaauao ia aku. Iloko o keia mau makahiki wale no e hiki ai aiakaiia ka noonoo o na keiki mai fco laou mau noonoo ponoi iho a ka noonoo e hookomo ia aku ana iloko ona. O ka moolelo malalo iho. i lawe ia mai no ka hoike ia ana aku imua o ka mea e heluheiu ana i keia buke. i hoomaopopoia ai ka pololei, oia hoi, ka hana ana a kekahi makua'hine i kana keikimahine no ka hoopakele ana iaia mal na hoowalewale i ike ia, ame ka mahihia o kona kino a hiki mavi kona mare ana, a ma kona noho ana aku e ike ai oia i ka pololei o na kamailio ana a ka makna iaia: Ma Kansas, a ma ke kulanakauhaīe nu\ o kela mokuaina, e noho ana kokahi man makna me ewalu a laua ohana keiki, he elima keikimahine a he ek 1 i keikik<*nt hana pa-papa ka ka makuakane okm ohana a e hooma«nwanni ana me ke kanmaha o Ica hana a k [kane. He keikimahine ka hiapo o keia ohana. ahe elua Imau keikimahine mahope mai, a he elua keikikane mahope i-o keia mau keikimahine. He 19 ka n«i ona makahiki o ika hiapo, a he 17 mai ko kekahi a he 15 mai ko kekahi. IO na keikimahine .17 ame ka 15 o na makal)iki, mo he la, io Wua na hanau-mua, ka ehnohu o ko laua kino» e koho iia aku m paha ho ~\ ame ka 20 makahiki. i Oiaī keia mau keikimahim v ana \ ke kula, a e komo ana maloko o uu anaina o na poe opio o k<? kulanaikauhaie, he mau mea maikai wale no ia; & mai ko lakou ntau ia e hoolohe tuau mai ana i ka 100 o ko lakou iliakuaa hiki i ko lakou hana ana aku elike ine ka lakou t liuanao ai he pono, ! E hele ana lakou ma na anaina haipule ike ahlahū a \ha uuu halawai e ae lioi a na keikimahme o ko iakau hak w ikuU a o ka īuea i ,ike ia, ma ia hope mai ehoihoi ia aku »aua Ukou i keU anio keia po e na hoaloha keikikane pa [ M«nao «nei koia ohana palaka aua |rt«apopo oie i keia nmu inakua ka lakou mea c haiw nei? > i (Aole I *